In this day and age when public opinion the polls indicate
that respect for congresses, presidents, lawyers and others involved in
government regardless of party are at an all-time low it might be difficult to
find any politician who might be considered a good man. Our small town
newspaper editor recently wrote an editorial in the Spring Valley Tribune about
a man who recently died who defied all of those stereotypes. The editor and
owner of the aforementioned small town weekly newspaper is David Phillips. He
is a man who I highly respect and is a former tennis player who I played with
and against many times. His editorial I quote now word for word.
Radiant thoughts of lost ‘friend' cut through loom of rainy
day.
"After work one rainy
day last week, I decided to take a run on the Root River trail from Lanesboro, l despite the weather conditions. Although the trees were still bare,
offering little protection, I thought the valleys surrounded by bluffs would
offer a little buffer from the wind, softening the blow of the light rain.
As I made my way,
west of Lanesboro, I spotted the Duane Benson farm. In the gray monotone
atmosphere, it looked so different than I recalled because I had always pictured
it is a radiant place with the sunshine acting as a spotlight highlighting this
heavenly paradise on earth.
Part of that
cheerful upbeat image is probably because of the man who lived there. Benson was
such a radiant person who made a name for himself in so many do ways. He played
in the NFL, operating as team captain of the Oakland Raiders in 1971 and
playing in a Super Bowl. Then he served in the Minnesota legislature for more
than a decade helping craft bi-partisan bills, Minnesota Care being one which still
addresses key issues today.
After he left
politics, he became Executive Director of the Minnesota business partnership, a
group of CEOs from Minnesota businesses, was a charter member of the Minnesota
sports facilities Authority, which oversaw construction of the states professional
football stadium and served in many other capacities including initiatives to
further early learning as well as college education. Yet it wasn’t his
accomplishments that touched me.
My memories aren’t
of his time in the NFL, the state Legislature or State Boards. Instead, I
recall brief moments we connected-on a school bus riding to the start of the
trout trot race in a nearby small town, or when we sat across from each other
during lunch when he was a guest speaker at the service club or at a foundation
banquet when he brought me a drink before dinner where again he was a guest
speaker.
Those encounters
probably happened about a decade apart it it always seemed as if we had talked
just the day before. We weren’t close enough to be considered friends but he
treated me like a best friend every time I saw him. Those memories flooded my
mind as I ran past his farm that didn’t have the Radiance on that wet day last week. The gloomy appearance wasn’t just from the gray skies above. My perception was
colored by the fact that I also knew Benson would never be returning to the
farm a place he enjoyed even preferred while he was out in the world making a
name for himself, because he died earlier this year after a battle with cancer.
He was 73 years old at his death shorter than the average lifetime of Americans
today. Yet his life was far above in what he brought to the world.
Sometimes we focus
on the length of our lives rather than the quality of our lives. However the
key is what we do with our years rather than how many years we exist Benson
packed a lot of living into his years on earth. His life is also a good
reminder that the important things aren’t necessarily what we accomplish. What
counts is how we treat people something many of us forget in the daily rush to
keep up with all our worldly commitments.
I’ll never see
Duane's smiling face in the physical world again but I’m sure memories of his
thoughtfulness humor and warmth will pop back into my mind at times even if I
may be in a gloomy rainy funk. Those images of Benson in my mind, will always
exhibit the Radiance as if the sun is shining down from heaven on him.
As I, Troutbirder/teacher Ray, reflect on this man, I knew him
pretty much as Dave describes him in his editorial. He came to my high school
12th grade classroom as a guest to talk about the legislature and politics and
citizenship. He talked to those students as to what a duty as citizens we
should all take seriously. He described politics as something that someday they
might aspire to which could help their communities their state and their
nation. He described politics as the honor and privilege of his life to serve. Nothing about football and his other famous accomplishments and yet I
can only describe his talk as inspirational. Someday participate, he urged. I could’ve
invited other political figures to my classrooms. But I didn’t. I didn’t want
to invite men or women who might raise their finger’s in the air to see which
way the wind was blowing so they could be reelected, or were were unwilling to
compromise and work together with people of other political principles to get things
done.
Duane Benson was a very good man and a politician more of
whom we could use today to help make America less divided and even greater than it already is.
Remember Winston Churchill’s great insight. “Democracy is the worst form of
government, except for all the rest”
An Oakland Raider for all seasons....:)
Hi Ray, Another excellent post. Now, you said, " I could’ve invited other political figures to my classrooms. But I didn’t. I didn’t want to invite men or women who might raise their fingers in the air to see which way the wind was blowing so they could be reelected, or were unwilling to compromise and work together with people of other political principles to get things done." I think you just nailed what is wrong with this country today. It's a perfect description of Individual #1. John
ReplyDeleteWhat a good tribute to a good man. How few are left. My own state has one such great senator, Sherrod Brown. We pray every four years he refrains from throwing in his hat; so much remains to be done here in Ohio. Best wishes on your knee.
ReplyDeleteA good man, indeed, and I enjoyed reading about him. My country could do with a few men such as Duane Benson - or even one!
ReplyDeleteYou were blessed to know this good, honest man. They are so few politicians today that the words good and honest could be used to describe them.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this warm tribute to a good human being. I love the fact that his party affiliation is not mentioned anywhere. I do not know it and do not care. Lack of trust in the institutions that shape our societies is creates dangerous self fulfilling prophecies. When young people hear “They are all a bunch of crooks” too often the best and most moderate may stay home, leaving the field to extremists.
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