From birth to five years of
age during World War II my parents and I lived in an apartment on the east side
of St. Paul. I have few memories of those years except for Connie Hansen who was
my age and we played in the sandbox together on Earl Street. And on 4 July that
year during the fireworks at Lake Phalen I wandered off in the night among the
crowds and frightened both myself and my mother. The highlight though was
several times a week when my grandpa Potthoff stopped at Basta’s bakery around
the corner and brought me a Bismarck. At the University and in
graduate school I chose Prince Otto von Bismarck to write one of my three plan B
thesis for European history.
Prince Otto von Bismarck was
a wealthy landowner from Germany’s most militaristic State. As a young officer
he rose through the ranks of the Prussian military, eventually to a leadership
position in the government. He served two Kings of
Prussia who were more interested in parties and womanizing rather than the stern
business of governing. Bismarck rose in Parliament to become chancellor and lead
Prussia to win a series of wars, which led to the unification of more than 30
German states into a new nation called Germany. With that accomplishment
Bismarck became the peacemaker of Europe by promoting cooperation and friendship
among the various nations of Europe. To his credit he created the first system
of social security within the German Empire and anywhere in Europe. His
desire was to forestall the working people of Germany from turning to Marxist
communism. It worked. It was 40 some years before FDR and the New deal brought a
similar plan to America. Unfortunately, our social safety net is now at risk
with the Republicans determined to trash it. And the Bismarck pastry which I
still love, unfortunately, with the closing of our small town bakery will no
longer be available. How sad.Bissmarck first a war hero and unifier and later the leaedeer who kept Europ at peace for decades, I like that.....
My second hero’s name is
Teddy. His face along with that of Lincoln, Washington, and
Jefferson can be seen on Mount Rushmore. My grandparents put Theodore’s name in
the middle of my father’s names. My dad was born in 1909 and I have the same
middle name and named our first son Theodore. His legendary story can be found
in many good biographies and history books. Both he and Lincoln were Republicans
and two of our greatest presidents. I parted ways with the an acquaintance
after he called my hero a R. H. I. N. O. (Republican In Name Only). Insult my
heroes at your own peril.Oh and beside leading the charge up St Juan Hill, winning the Pulitzer Peace prize , seeing the Panama canal built, being a coyboy in NORTH DAKOTA HEAD OF POLICE IN NEW YORK CITY, BROKE UP MONOPOLIES, AND WAS THE FIRST PRESIDENT TO FLY IN AN AIRPLANE. HE ALSO WA A GREAT WRITER OF BOOKS AND MAGAZINE ARTICLES
Sir Lancelot of the
lake. It is no accident that our son Ted’s middle name was Lance and so
is my eldest grandson Ethan’s. As you may recall Barb’s mission was to raise our
two sons in the Catholic faith. My mission was to do my best to mold them with
strength of character, bravery and good morals. Sir Lancelot was King Arthur’s
number one knight of the roundtable. He rescued fair damsels in distress from
dragons and all danger. He was the bravest knight of them all. So when our friend
Stacy told me of the elderly lady staying in her home at night because of a
marauding pack of a rat-like opossums taking over her trailer home in Spring
Valley’s slum district, what could I do but try solve the problem? Actually I
did with the help of my large raccoon trap. Our eldest son Ted climbed out on a
four story ledge to bring to safety a student inside while a
drunken crowd of college students below taunted the young man to jump into his
death below. Ted also, also pulled a high school friend to safety from in the
middle of the St. Croix River. And then her youngest
son Tony and his wife brought 2 children to America from Africa and later from
Haiti shortly after the earthquake where she was found after three days still
alive but buried under the rubble of a collapsed orphanage. And B. T. W.
I still like to open and close car doors for ladies even though it
doesn’t seem to be very fashionable anymore.
Last but not least is Julius
Caesar. I read his book, though not in Latin, titled the Gallic
wars. Veni, Vidi, Vici. I came. I saw.
I conquered. He was indeed the greatest Roman of them all. Future empires named
their rulers after him. The German Kaiser. The Russians Czar. And others. My son
named after Marc Anthony (Tony) , Whose eulogy of Julius Caesar
Shakespeare began with the words “friends Romans, countrymen lend me your ears.
I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him. The evil that men do lives after
them;. The good is oft interred with ...” He was loved by his men, set goals and
achieved them and changed a failing Republic into an empire that lasted for over
500 years. And of course my favorite summer month July is named after my
hero.
Again I’m reminded of what
William Kent Krueger said in his recent appearance at the Spring Valley library,
that the stories and legends of our youth often sets for us as young children
the goals and ideals that help to make us who we are. I believe that can be true
for all children if they have good role models and heroes to worship. It is
unfortunate that today many of our children’s role models are celebrities including singers and some athletes who are worthy only of our disgust………My mom led me to read books as a young boy and there I found my heroes including Lou Gehrig Boy of the sandlots and all American football player Doak Walker of SMU a Methodist like me.💪
You have chosen your heroes well, Ray, and have done them proud.
ReplyDeleteSo totally agree with your "role models" thought. So many people don't have good, honest or worthy role models.
ReplyDeleteLove your stories of your personal heroism. Made me smile. And for what it is worth--I still like a car door...or any door opened for me. AND I say "thank you" to those who do! :)
You are a gentleman Ray:) Most of Washington needs a swift kick in the butt and get down to work instead of attacking each other and wasting time:)
ReplyDeleteWorthy heroes all! It sounds like your son lived up to his names and his father’s hopes quite well when he was a young man. I was positively influenced by the books i read when i was a child, too, and went on to be a teacher of literature to pass along the benefits of being a reader.
ReplyDeleteYou chose well Ray and I like how you gave your heroes names to your offspring. Gave them something to shoot for and live up to though you all ready set that bar high.
ReplyDeleteReading was so important to our family. My Mom read to us every night--some of my best memories.
You're right about these people being good role models. I think with Trump we're screwed for a long time.
ReplyDeleteWe've put a big burden on the next generation. I hope there are heroes among them.
ReplyDeleteA very interesting post, and I do agree with you about your final sentence.
ReplyDeleteYes, the role model starts at home and if that's not good the poor child has a hard row to how. A lot of interesting facts to absorb and thanks for the thoroughness.
ReplyDeleteWell written, Ray. You certainly know your history! Like the Leinie cap!!
ReplyDeleteYour heroes are fitting, given what I've learned and know about you, Ray. Hope you and yours are ok,
ReplyDeleteMike
Hi Ray - it's good to write these kind of memories down and the whys of our admiration for statesmen who've left us ... while reminding us of our early life and the standards we were set and thus set for our youngsters. All the best - Hilary
ReplyDeleteDear Ray, thank you for sharing your heroes and your convictions about how heroes and the good examples of others can shape us into moral and ethical human beings. This is such an important posting for all of us who wonder at times what exactly has happened to our country. When I was little, Mom read many books to me and later I became an avid reader and thus met many characters whose compassion for others influenced me. One of the most influential was Dorothy Day.
ReplyDeleteAs to Wm. Kent Krueger, I've read all his books and listened to all of the audios of them. He is one of my favorite writers and the Native American prayers he has included in some of his books are ones that I've kept and pray.
Take care. Life awaits our belief. Peace.