A recent story in both the Minneapolis and St. Paul
newspapers caught my eye. The headline in the Minneapolis Star and Tribune
stated end of an era for troubled boys. St. Paul’s century old boys totem town
closes. I was there for two years while an undergraduate student at the
University of Minnesota. Basically as a volunteer supervisor/playground
director every weekend. I got 2 college credits in the process as well as
improving my resume to achieve my goal as a senior high history teacher.
Boys Totem Town was a
residential program for up to adolescent
boys age 14-18 who had been committed by the court to treatment for committing
offenses and demonstrating risky behavioral concerns in the community. I
learned a lot in my two years there and some of it stood well when it came to
discipline issues in the my own career. I also think the reason for closing was
well-founded. With better methods of dealing with delinquency have less and less incarceration. Keeping families
together, community support and so on as well as much less serious behavioral
issues all were making a difference. At closing there were only two boys still
in the facility.. That’s a good sign.
In a roundabout way the nostalgia that this newspaper item
brought up reminded me of an interview I had with my principal in my first high
school job in small town rural Minnesota. I would be teaching senior Social
studies meaning my classes would be17 and 18 year olds. I was 22. In a fatherly manner to a young rookie teacher he noted my experience with delinquent boys that small town farm girls were not without their wiles. Be careful he noted and I did. What he didn't warn me about was a bunch of unmarried female colleagues. That included one who later boasted that following her girlfriends suggestion she admonished the superintendent to hire a single male to replace the departing senior social studies teacher. Or in her own words she had requisitioned me. I had no chance whatsoever. It was all for ordained.
Two retired teachers on their 50th anniversary
Two retired teachers on their 50th anniversary
That story of requisitioning a single social studies teacher, namely you, is priceless. as is your 59th anniversary photo.
ReplyDeleteI hope that was 25 years apiece.
ReplyDeleteThat was a wonderful story, Ray.
ReplyDeleteI read and re-read this, Ray. So enjoyable, and such happy memories.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't have a chance, but I don't think you have any regrets.
ReplyDeleteSweet memories and picture. Hold onto those good things to bolster your strength.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't have a chance but not sure you wanted one from the looks of the picture. Not many of us can say we were pre-selected.
ReplyDeleteGood for her and lucky you!
ReplyDeleteYeah Barb!! She knew what she was doing. What a great story:)
ReplyDeleteDear Troutbirder, isn't it amazing how lives intertwine and from that comes an entire life's journey. Peace.
ReplyDeleteI love this story, TB.
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ReplyDeleteShe “requisitioned you” — hahaha. I think that worked out rather well!
ReplyDeleteInteresting that you worked at Totem Town. It was situated in a pretty area back in the day. I’m sure it was a good experience for a would-be teacher.
Interesting story about the boys school. Pretty funny that the lady set you up! Glad it worked out.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Ray ... love the photo of the two of you - cheers Hilary
ReplyDeleteHow I love this story!
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